“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted” (Matthew 5:4)
Last week we looked at the spiritual activities that are at the least tightly linked with mourning. For example, prayer and fasting are things that cannot be biblically done without some degree of mourning. This week we want to look at how joy comes with mourning which is to say with the text that those who mourn are blessed because they shall be comforted. We will then have a short look at hindrances and helps to true mourning.
Joy comes with mourning because true mourning is always moved by love for God and His glory. Wherever there is love for God we know that is the work of the Spirit because true love is the fruit of the Spirit. Another aspect of the fruit of the Spirit is joy. Joy is not a separate fruit of the Spirit, but is part of the fruit (singular) of the Spirit. Joy is an essential element of the love worked in the heart by the Spirit. This is seen in Galatians 5:22 where the fruit (singular) of the Spirit has nine elements to it.
The text tells us that those who mourn shall be comforted. In an earlier newsletter we looked at the promises in the Beatitudes and concluded that the promises will be fulfilled now and in eternity. So people are blessed now if they have true spiritual mourning because they are blessed now and can look forward to the fullness of the comfort in eternity. We see this in several texts from Scripture:
Isaiah 51:12: “I, even I, am He who comforts you. Who are you that you are afraid of man who dies And of the son of man who is made like grass, 61:2: “To proclaim the favorable year of the LORD And the day of vengeance of our God; To comfort all who mourn.” 66:10: “Be joyful with Jerusalem and rejoice for her, all you who love her; Be exceedingly glad with her, all you who mourn over her.”
Luke 16:25: “But Abraham said, ‘Child, remember that during your life you received your good things, and likewise Lazarus bad things; but now he is being comforted here, and you are in agony.'”
Revelation 21:4: “and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away.”
2 Corinthians 1:4: “who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 5 For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ. 6 But if we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; or if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which is effective in the patient enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer; 7 and our hope for you is firmly grounded, knowing that as you are sharers of our sufferings, so also you are sharers of our comfort.”
For the believer that mourns for the name of God and His glory in the world, there is the comfort of God Himself for and with that believer. The heart that loves God enough to mourn when His name is abused in the world has God Himself in the heart and so is comforted by Him. We see the promise from Revelation 21:4 that in eternity God will wipe away every tear from the eye and all mourning will be done away. That is a promise with great comfort for all those that mourn for biblical things. But II Corinthians 1:4-7 has promises of comfort right now as well. It is that comfort which brings joy in the midst of mourning.
In verse 4 we see that it is God who comforts His people so that they will be able to comfort others who are going through the same thing. In this context the sufferings are for afflictions, but mourning is a type of inner affliction. Believers are afflicted with many things both inwardly and outwardly in the cause of Christ, but He comforts them. He brings afflictions to them to teach them that He is better than all the world has to offer. When people learn to suffer with the joy that Christ gives they have learned that His lovingkindness is better than life (Psa 63:3). When people learn that mourning for true spiritual things is better than all the pleasures of the world, they have learned what it means to be comforted by God. God comforts with the joy and pleasure of His presence. We must learn that if we mourn out of love for God and His name and glory in this world it is actually God Himself who comes and comforts that heart with Himself. In sharing that comfort with others we are comforted even more with Him.
“But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ. 8 More than that, I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ, 9 and may be found in Him, not having a righteousness of my own derived from the Law, but that which is through faith in Christ, the righteousness which comes from God on the basis of faith, 10 that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death” (Phil 3:7-10).
In the text just above we see that Paul suffered a lot in order to know Christ. He suffered the loss of his position in life and probably all of his possessions. He dropped from being a highly esteemed person in the religious realm to being despised by the political and religious people in that land. However, he counted all of those losses as gain in order to know Christ. All of the esteem and things of the world he considered as rubbish (dung) in order to gain Christ. He wanted to know Christ and even the fellowship of His sufferings. In these verses we see the heart of Paul. The whole world was dung to him if he could but know Christ. Paul loved Christ and wanted Christ more than anything and everything. Paul was willing to die in order to proclaim the Gospel that he loved so much. What did he mourn over? For many walk, of whom I often told you, and now tell you even weeping, that they are enemies of the cross of Christ” (Phil 3:18). A heart that was filled with such love for Christ was also a heart that mourned for how people treated Christ, but Paul also taught us to be comforted by God (II Cor 1:4-7). That comfort given by God brings joy.
The hindrances to mourning are focused on a few things. We do not mourn because we do not love God and our neighbors enough. We do not mourn because we have a defective view of sin and we do not mourn because we restrain our affections. We don’t mourn for the glory and kingdom of God because our hearts are not set on those things as of primary importance and love. We mourn when things that hurt our financial or physical well-being come across our path, but to mourn for that and not for His glory shows us where our true love really is. We mourn when other people have a physical illness or distress of some sort in this world, but we don’t mourn when we see them fall into sin which is really the greatest harm that can befall another person. If we had true spiritual eyes we would have joy in the trials of others if we saw God working spiritual good in them. We would also mourn over their sin when it involved greed and worldliness even when they were growing wealthy. That would mean that we make a decision concerning their true well-being based on spiritual issues. We should mourn over people that attend “churches” where their sin is not pointed out and God is not truly exalted in Christ regardless of the size and affluence of the “church” they attend.
While it may sound strange, we need to look at helps to mourning or at least those things that are conducive to a heart that loves enough to mourn. The first thing is that we must pray and seek hearts from God for hearts that love His glory and renown above all things. We will not mourn as we should until we love God’s glory and renown in the world more than our own comfort and worldly interests. The second thing is to pray that God would give us a greater love for our neighbors. If we truly loved our neighbors, we would mourn for their spiritual condition. The third thing is to pray that God would give us a growing love for the truth of the cross and grace of Christ. A heart that loves Christ and the cross cannot love sin which required His sufferings on the cross. The fourth thing that we must do is to learn the true nature of sin as it is enmity against God. People mourn when nations go to war and they mourn over criminal acts, but it is rare indeed to see people that mourn because of sin which is an act of hostility and hatred against God. Why don’t they? Because they don’t see sin as it really is and perhaps don’t love God.
The people within each church must strive to understand things in a spiritual way. All the academic knowledge in the world will not bring true spiritual understanding. Spiritual understanding is what is needed to understand how and why mourning for the proper things from a heart that loves God is actually conducive to true joy. One problem with speaking of the hindrances and helps to mourning is that both focus on the nature of true love and the nature of true love has been lost in our modern day for the most part. A man-centered way of thinking of love will never give a true understanding of mourning and the spiritual necessity for it. A God-centered view of love will do so. Meditate on the following verses and ask how it could be that Christ had a perfect love and joy in the Father. Though man may never understand this completely, meditating on that question will give some insight into the matter (II Tim 2:7). Isaiah 53:3; Matthew 26:37-38; Luke 19:41: John 11:35; Hebrews 5:7.